YOU CAN LEARN TO HAVE A BETTER LIFE

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What Could Our Lives Have Been Like If We Had Known We Were Here to Experience and Learn?

Wow! Just think how life could have been so different if our parents and grandparents had known they were here to learn to love better! The ones who neglected us would have thought twice about what they were doing or not doing. We could have received more love and encouragement. I could have heard good words spoken to me instead of harshness. I could have also known to speak better words to my own children. I could have had initiative to use more patience and kindness. I would have had more courage to do my best in life. But all we have is this no

I’ve learned about “life lessons” and how to heal from hardships and abuse. I also want to say that I learned about a scripture in Jeremiah that says, “Before you were formed in the belly, I knew you.” Huh? Woe, what does THAT mean? It turns out that we knew what lessons we needed to know for our spiritual development. We actually chose the circumstances we would be born into because of the lessons which we ourselves chose to learn!!

Contrary to what some religious old timers say, God is not choosing all those zaps we keep getting. We are choosing! Let’s say you are experiencing hardships with your relationship with someone else. Would you be at fault in any way? Were you disloyal? Did you lie or mislead someone for your own selfish motives? Well, perhaps your inner being desires you to learn to be loyal and truthful.

I will show you how you can bring yourself up higher and higher from the depths of despair to joy and bliss one step at a time. It’s like a scope and sequence scale such as the math skills we teach children. First you count objects, next you add objects, then subtract and multiply and divide for example.

Divine Resolution:

1. Close your eyes

2. Concentrate

3. Pretend as if you are speaking to your guardian angel, or guide, or God. Say this:

“To my Creator, or Angels, my guides, or ascended masters, I ask for help in finding out the truth of how things really are so that I can learn to have a better life and learn how to love others better than I currently do. Thank you for helping me and enlightening my mind to the truth.

DREADFUL MISTAKES ABUSE VICTIMS MAKE

leopard-in-tree-contemplatingDivine Reflection:
Read each point.
Close your eyes and ask each one in a question form such as, “Do I believe lies about myself that I may have been told as a child?”

“What are the lies I believe?
If you ask sincerely, you will have a memory come to you of how someone said a certain thing to you.

At this point, from a sincere heart, say, “I forgive that.” This person was ignorant of how to treat me. I forgive that person and pray they will have learned better. No matter what, I dismiss this lie from my heart now and forevermore.”
There most likely will be many different occurrences, and you may have to repeat the same forgiveness over because of the amount of hurt and damage it caused.

1. They believe the lies told about them, example: “You are so dumb, you are so bad…”  “Are there any lies I believe?” ————————————————————————————————————————————-

2. They believe the lies they tell themselves. “I am inferior to other people”  “Do I tell myself lies?”_______________________________________________

3. They feel unworthy of love. “I was abused and used so now I am unlovable, ”  “Do I feel unworthy of love?”____________________________________________

4. They think God must have allowed it. “Do I think God wanted this?”________

5. They don’t know they are learning life lessons, or for what reason. “Am I learning lessons?  ____________________________________

6. They don’t know that help from higher beings is available. “Can I receive help, or do I need to be perfect first?”

7. They don’t know that intuition can be a guide. “Do I have intuition?”

8. They don’t know that they can learn higher and better ways of thinking. “If there are higher and better ways of thinking, can I be shown the way to do this?”

9. They don’t know the “big picture”. “If there is a bigger picture to what I have experienced in life, may I be given help to know it?”

10. They don’t focus their thoughts on what they do want, but rather the emotional pain they don’t want. “Do I focus on the pain of what I don’t want?”

Divine Solution:  Observe what you have written.  See the lies you may be hanging onto.  Say this: ” Thank you for helping know what I need to dismiss from my thinking.  I am grateful to be able to see what I need to do. I will remember how to overcome these lies I heard as a kid. Thank you,”

 

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