“Don’t Blame Others” – A Channeled Message


It is you who chooses your upset.

Be at peace. If you cannot be as delighted and happy with life as you would love to be, then at least be in peace. Be calm. Be rested. Be stable. You don’t have to be thrown by life and its inconsistencies.

Remember, we had a talk once about not blaming others for what makes you unhappy? You are not to blame anyone else for your discomfort. When you are upset, it is you who chooses your upset.

It is you who sets yourself off

Surely, someone’s words or facial expression may set you off, yet it is you who sets yourself off. You have the say over yourself. Your emotions are yours. You can’t blame anyone for your emotions. Nor can you blame Life.

Yes, many if not most human beings consider other people and Life responsible for how they feel. Likely, as you see it, B follows A. An outside cause caused you to feel angry or sad or unhappy or unkind. Or, you may see it that I caused or allowed something untoward and disruptive to occur in your Life that could only cause you resentment.

It is you, who has the ultimate responsibility for setting the dial of your feelings.

Even if someone intended to hurt your feelings, it is you, dear one, who has the ultimate responsibility for setting the dial of your feelings. Your feelings are your responsibility, not someone else’s. Remember, your reactions are your reactions. Your feelings are your feelings. You are not a little figure in a Monopoly game that someone outside you moves around.

When you are happy, it is not exactly that another caused your happiness either. It certainly seems so to you. You insist that beautiful diamond ring from your fiancé  gave you great happiness. Certainly, it was intended to. The diamond ring by itself is an inanimate object. You credit even inanimate objects with happiness qualities, just as you may credit the person who offers it to you the same. Of course, some people bring out appreciation from you more than others. Your appreciation doesn’t always stay constant.

Your beliefs come into question, dear ones. If you believed that this diamond ring had a curse put on it, you might well not accept it at all. And if you felt that the man who offered it to you was a blackguard, you might well not accept ten good diamonds from him either.

Somewhere you gained the idea in your life that you are supposed to react in certain ways to certain occasions that befall you. Someone in the world has said that you and everyone are about as happy as you make up your minds to be. This seems plausible to Me.

If you had the idea that you don’t have to be knocked low by certain matters, or raised high by certain matters, you may well be in accord, yet must you always be affected as you always have been?

One point here is that it may serve you well to think about what makes you happy. You have every right to focus on what gives you happiness. Substitute happy thoughts for unhappy thoughts. 

There is an alternate for you, and this is to just know that happiness comes from within you. It’s all here. You have all the ingredients for happiness right now within you. Accept these ingredients. You don’t have to debate your happiness and the reasons why.

Somewhere within, you make a decision for unhappiness.

Subconscious or self-righteous, somewhere within, you draw certain conclusions. You have come to the conclusion that certain conditions demand that you be happy or unhappy, and you abide by these conditions. You also carry the idea that your state of mind at this moment stems from an outside event.

You can carry that idea all through your life on Earth, but why? Nobody makes you carry this idea. Only you do that.
The idea that you choose your happiness and unhappiness seems unfounded to you.

What cleverness is there in the limited idea that you are a victim in one way or another and that must respond so at whatever cost? Just so you can say: “See, you made me unhappy. I am unhappy because of you.”

Rather, let your question be: “What advantage can there really be in not letting go of offense?”
You can think of many situations in which you could only be unhappy. True? I understand, yet I also rest My case, beloveds. You may well believe that unhappiness is dropped on you and not of your making at all.

End of Transmission

 

 

You are Creating Your Own Life, Even the Pain

Thinking about the first steps to end suffering.
According to ancient scriptures and prophetic utterances, we must acknowledge the emotional pain. I heard about an “ascended master” called “Saint Germain”. He said, “What your attention is upon, you become. What your attention is upon, you make it your reality.” Have you ever noticed that if your heart has sorrow, and you dwell upon this emotion, you feel worse and worse? Can you see that his above statement is true? We recognize truth when we hear it.

Our negative perspective about life is a “miscreation” of our own doing! How can this be? It appears as if it is someone else’s miscreation and we are the innocent victims! But here’s the main revelation: We can choose our reaction to abuse. Do we sink down into despair? Do we suddenly lose our self-worth and feel that everyone else is better and we are now damaged and worthless?

The answer is that we can overcome everything!  We can rise above this. We can choose to feel differently and wash this pain out of our lives!
How Do You Cleanse Your Life from Destruction and Pain?

• When you feel the anger, or guilt, or sadness, say, “I no longer want this miscreation in my life. I desire it to be out of my life!”

• Say, “I want to rise above this. I want all the negative emotions to be replaced by positive emotions.”

• “ I ask the Creator and the angles to assist me in learning how to do this. And I thank you, I love you, and I will be listening for answers to show up in my life.”

• Then, when an idea comes to you, realize it is not an accident. Think upon this answer, it is a “revelation” to you.

When we go through our day and we see certain situations that make us mad or make us sad, don’t just observe the situation and experience the sadness again and again! Notice what you are feeling. Then we must stop experiencing the pain! Make yourself do it.  Replace negative thoughts with better ones.

Don’t review the past over and over. Let the past be in the past, not in the present moment, or else the present moment becomes filled with pain!
See how you yourself are causing the painful memory to arise within you? You did it, you allowed the memory and pain to rise back up again and again. You have the power to dismiss that pain. Did you know you have power to do this?

Imagine taking the hurt and pain out of your heart. Pretend to somehow grab hold, take them out, put them into an imaginary bag in your mind. These visualizations work! These things might sound as if they’re silly. But this is the way we create! The new revelations being taught to people say this is truly how we begin to conquer our pain.

So, we must stop visualizing what we DON’T want in our minds. If you see the scenario over and over and over in your mind such as someone shouting at you, being mean to you, or hurting you in some way or another, if you see that over and over in your mind you are miscreating again and again and again. You are building more and more anger in your heart. Get the anger out! Each time you experience these negative emotions, become aware of it. Do not let it fester. With no one else knowing, just secretly look up at the sky, or into the trees, or shut your eyes. Visualize throwing away the pain, unforgiveness, and all negativity so that you may be healed of it.

My Vision
One day I was hurting quite a bit. I was grieving about how I had been mistreated by someone in my family in the U.S. They had hurt me very deeply because of their own pain and mis-creations they harbored inside their mind. I suffered many years of abuse and rejection and disrespect. I was visiting Morocco in a little village, listening to a beautiful inspired song during Ramadan when I could feel a wonderful healing presence there with me.
I closed my eyes and could see an image of an angel standing in front of me with a bag, holding it by handles. I instinctively knew that I was being asked to take out the hurt from my heart and place it into the bag. I did do that, one hurt at a time with tears streaming down my face. Then, I noticed a pathway behind the angel which seemed to reveal to me that whenever I took all the hurt out from my life, I would be able to go forward onto my path in life. For three days, every time I closed my eyes, I could see this angel holding the bag. Wow! Imagine that, a real vision! I thought visions meant you “see” with your eyes open. But my eyes were closed, yet I vividly could see this scenario in my head.
I felt that this vision was telling me to get all the pain out, then I could be enabled to proceed forward into my purpose, finally. I apparently cannot move into my “purpose” until I overcome my pain and suffering. So, if this is true for me, it must also be true for you also.

So, let’s move forward to be all we are created to be. Let’s overcome these abusive situations and find our purpose in life.

My Prayer: “Oh God, I know you love me. I know I have been in painful situations. I want to be healed of all the negative effects of abuse and negativity. Tell me what to do about these things. I will listen and heed the guidance I am given so that I can overcome all the pain. Thank you for sending me help.”

SOME QUESTIONS YOU MIGHT BE ASKING

Thinking about the first steps to end suffering.

  

HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED ABOUT SOME OF THESE QUESTIONS?

1. Have you ever heard about “near death experiences” people say they have had when they died and were resuscitated?

2. Did you know you are on a journey to the Light?  Near death experiencers tell us what happened to them before being brought back by doctors.  Check out YouTube for “Near Death Experiences”

3. Do you know WHY you are on a journey?  We are moving forward, learning how to handle life situations, learning to love better, be kinder, nicer…

4. Do you know that our religions of the past and present don’t tell us the whole story?  The people who return from their near-death  experience tell us they were informed of so much more.

5. Do you know WHY we are here on this planet? 

6. Do you know you have a soul that leaves the body when you kick the bucket? They say there’s really no death, and you feel so much better!

7. Do you know about the “soul review” you will experience after your death? They tell us there is a review of your life and what you still need to learn. Some people tell us we sort of “go to school” to catch up on a few things.

8. Do you know about Quantum Physics or  Quantum Mechanics? ? Do you know about the Double-Slit experiment? Do a little research into Google, or YouTube. Results to these experiences are amazing.

9. Have you heard about the idea that we are all connected”?  We are told that we are actually are brothers and sisters?

10. Have you ever heard that YOU are the creator of your reality?!  We create with the thoughts we think.

Important Step:  Take a moment to circle the questions you feel remain unanswered for you.