INTRODUCTION

 

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You are on a journey to the Light at the end of your path.  Some people are not as far along as you. Some people are farther along on their path than you. This is why we don’t try to change people. We just accept where they are.  Total acceptance for our fellow mankind is one of the first steps to progression on our own path.

We came to earth to observe the contrast here. If you never identify the bad, worse, and worst, how can you know good, better, and best? This refers to the difference between the good and the bad.

How could teachers in the ancient days tell about the good and the bad? A long time ago, we had no education, no science, no newspapers, no phone, no Internet, no books or radio or television. We didn’t know much back then. Have you heard all the stories about the devil? What about demons? 

A Journey Away from Darkness Toward More “ Light”. When I first heard this, I felt that it made so much sense. That’s exactly what is going on. These near-death experiences of many people reveal new information they received while “on the other side”. See for yourself all the presentations you can find on YouTube and in books. They report that we came here to learn how to love better. There are many lessons we can learn if we decide to.

We are Evolving Toward Love, the Highest Level. Our goal is to learn to love more and more, going higher and higher. This concerns forgiving others of what they have done to hurt us. We choose how to respond to every situation. Each response will bring us closer and closer to the growth we are seeking, or we can choose to stay at a stand-still. In responding to relationship problems or situations, no one can cause us to choose bad behavior of any sort. It is our own choice. The bottom line is that we individually choose our lives. We choose to progress toward the “Light” or choose the “darkness”.

This book helps us begin to see all situations, people, and events from a positive perspective.  

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YOU CAN LEARN TO HAVE A BETTER LIFE

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What Could Our Lives Have Been Like If We Had Known We Were Here to Experience and Learn?

Wow! Just think how life could have been so different if our parents and grandparents had known they were here to learn to love better! The ones who neglected us would have thought twice about what they were doing or not doing. We could have received more love and encouragement. I could have heard good words spoken to me instead of harshness. I could have also known to speak better words to my own children. I could have had initiative to use more patience and kindness. I would have had more courage to do my best in life. But all we have is this no

I’ve learned about “life lessons” and how to heal from hardships and abuse. I also want to say that I learned about a scripture in Jeremiah that says, “Before you were formed in the belly, I knew you.” Huh? Woe, what does THAT mean? It turns out that we knew what lessons we needed to know for our spiritual development. We actually chose the circumstances we would be born into because of the lessons which we ourselves chose to learn!!

Contrary to what some religious old timers say, God is not choosing all those zaps we keep getting. We are choosing! Let’s say you are experiencing hardships with your relationship with someone else. Would you be at fault in any way? Were you disloyal? Did you lie or mislead someone for your own selfish motives? Well, perhaps your inner being desires you to learn to be loyal and truthful.

I will show you how you can bring yourself up higher and higher from the depths of despair to joy and bliss one step at a time. It’s like a scope and sequence scale such as the math skills we teach children. First you count objects, next you add objects, then subtract and multiply and divide for example.

Divine Resolution:

1. Close your eyes

2. Concentrate

3. Pretend as if you are speaking to your guardian angel, or guide, or God. Say this:

“To my Creator, or Angels, my guides, or ascended masters, I ask for help in finding out the truth of how things really are so that I can learn to have a better life and learn how to love others better than I currently do. Thank you for helping me and enlightening my mind to the truth.

“There Are Things Ye Know Not Of.” Jesus

Thinking about the first steps to end suffering.

Thinking about the first steps to end suffering.

Would you be so bold as to admit there are things you don’t know? What about science? Do you know everything about everything? Could Jesus possibly have known things he couldn’t tell the people about 2,000 years ago? Maybe they were without an education and could not have conceived of too much information. Maybe they couldn’t read and write. What do you think about the above verse?

Could it be that He knew a great deal of science? Could it be that he was receiving “downloads” from God? Could it be true that current science facts are true about our world being in a state of vibration? Could there be more to this “vibrational” thing that we don’t know about?

They say we can “feel the vibes” if we get around a person harboring ill feelings and attitudes. Have you ever seen a dog wag his tail when a sweet and loving person comes around, and the same dog gets all mad and shows his teeth when a different person comes? Do you think the dog could possibly be feeling the vibes of that person?

The modern revelations about these vibrations is this: Our thinking causes our own vibrations to be low with the negative and sad thoughts. Our positive and joyful thoughts cause a higher vibrational frequency. I have heard it said that when we are sad and depressed, crying and grieving, then we “attract” more of that very thing.

Have you ever had the experience in your lifetime of getting “aggravated” and thinking about someone who is making you mad? Then you think more, and more of all the other stuff accumulating on your mind as the offenses grow and grow. Can you see how you “riled” up your own self? Of course, the bad guy did the bad things, but it was you that began to emit the “riled up” feelings. Right?

We still have control

So, this tells us that no matter what is done to us, we still have control of whether we will choose to be angry and agitated, whether we will feel it for just a moment and dismiss it, or dwell on it for an extended amount of time. This is up to us; our reactions are up to us. We can feel crippled from here on out, or we can decide to overcome it somehow.

Divine Solution: We can decide to overcome it.

  1. Close your eyes
  2. Concentrate.
  3. Feel as if you are speaking to your guardian angel, or guide, or God.
  4. Say this:

“I forgive the people who have hurt me.” When someone’s image comes to your mind, say “I forgive that person”. Do this even though you might feel anger and pain.

Rise Up Out of the Emotional Pain of Abuse

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Any Type of Abuse is Painful Emotionally

There is no need to review the things that happened in the past.  You already know that you have pain from these things and know that you need to rid your being of this pain because it seems to cause resentment, anger, hatred, malice and so forth.  You must be about the business of washing away all the effects of the childabuse you suffered so that your life as an adult can progress along without blockages to love.

Have you ever noticed that your traumas with being hurt in love situations cause you to become less able to love the next time?  Yep, that’s what happened.  You were traumatized.  Your inner self, or subconscious mind says, “Hey, that ain’t happenin’ to me again!  I’m gonna hold back, I can’t take that pain.  I can’t trust this love thing anymore”.

But let me tell you, there’s a way to unblock the love flow. I will tell you all about it. There is no need to live with a closed heart.  It is much more wonderful to open up and allow love to envelope your being. To live a fully loving life, there are things you must do, such as get rid of false beliefs, forgive, and get rid of resentment. First of all do this:

Be open to receive your own specific “downloads

If you have an open heart, you could ask for help. Ask for answers to questions by assuming your “guardian angel” is there waiting for you to ask for help.  You can receive “aha” moments which are bits of revelation that seem to speak straight to your heart. Sometimes, just the right thing you needed to hear is “sent” to you, such as when you drive along and see a bill board that says something that hits your heart. Perhaps a song speaks to you. Maybe your eyes fall upon a certain scripture that says something profound just in the nick of time. This is how the “Higher Realms” give you a “download”, or a “revelation”. Do not discard it and dismiss it. It is important! It is for you to absorb into your being to give you instruction and comfort to help you along your path.

Have you ever heard about the Pentecostal people in America?

They are very much like the Baptist form of Christianity. Sometimes they are called “Evangelicals” or “Full Gospel” people. But the main difference is their belief in what they call the “gifts of the Spirit”. These gifts are mentioned in the Bible in the book of First Corinthians:12. So, considering it is in the Bible, it is an acceptable thing, right? Most people don’t bother to object to this, they just scratch their heads as if to say, “Well, I don’t know much about it, but I accept it”.

Here is what happens in these churches:

When the people are singing from their heart, they are “raising their vibes” higher and higher until you can actually feel a wonderful love energy descend upon the whole congregation. Tears come to your eyes as you are able to open your heart to Almighty God. When this happens, such an enormous “Love” feeling comes to you. You sort of “feel the vibes”. Most of the time, a spontaneous hush comes upon the whole congregation at once, then someone with that gift of prophetic utterance speaks out so that all can hear. Comforting and loving words are said as if the person is speaking for God. They say they receive a few words or a concept inside their mind, then speak them out, then receive a few more, and speak those out. It’s an unusual phenomenon.

I was raised in the “Church of God” which is a Pentecostal type church. So, I have seen many events just like the above description. This experience is so very healing and helpful. Outsiders are critical of this “gift”, but no one disputes the fact that it is indeed in the Bible, and you can’t deny that heavenly feeling that comes over almost every believer.

By this same gift, people are receiving more information these days. People with this gift say that everyone does this whether they know it or not.  Nowadays some people call it “channeling”. Many people all the world over are receiving instructions on how to get rid of emotional trauma and let go of emotional pain. They are receiving guidance on how to live better, how to love better. how to be happier, and so much more.  It is almost like people can “raise their antenaes” and search for the “vibes” or the ideas which could come.

Divine Solution: 

  1. Close your eyes, 
  2. Say sincerely from your heart: “I desire to receive messages from the heavenly realms that can make my life better.
  3. “Thank you for showing me how to live a better life. 
  4. “Protect me from negative influences and help me to know when I am allowing negativity into my life.

We Are Creating Our Own Lives

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Kids Believe and Internalize What Is Told to Them

An unloving parent would say, “You’ll never amount to anything”, so a kid will believe it because they are young and vulnerable! Behavioral scientists say children do this to age 6 or so.  We were just little kids when this happened to us. So many children have been made to feel unworthy of love! Anything an important person says; they consider it true.

A belief is a thought you keep thinking

Abraham-Hicks said, “A belief is a thought you keep thinking”. We think about it through the years and believe it. We watch our lives go down the tubes because of these beliefs. We unconsciously act out the words spoken over us. We self-sabotage because we don’t believe we can be successful. Why don’t we believe in our success? It is because we were told we wouldn’t amount to anything and we believed it deep down inside! The sad part is that we don’t realize this is what we are doing to ourselves.

You can change your beliefs and patterns of behavior.

These beliefs must be changed. Behavioral scientists have studied this sort of thing for decades. Self-sabotage is serious business. You can change your beliefs and patterns of behavior. We must not let the words of unthinking parents ruin our lives. We cannot allow our lives to be less than they could be.

You Receive What You Believe.

This is a truth which must be seriously considered. Think of all the times you wanted to do something but couldn’t. Let’s say you were a kid playing the piano at the recital for parents.  If you were believing you would make a mistake and fearful that you would screw up, the ultimate thing happens. You missed a note! You think everyone can tell you screwed up. You believed you could not play the piece perfectly and that is what happened. You received what you believed.

So now, contemplate these things and ask for Divine help in overcoming the negativity you accumulated during your lifetime. Learn to take a moment or two and think this over. See yourself clearing all this out of your consciousness and feel emotionally how good it would feel if you were rid of false beliefs from childhood.

We create by thoughts, words, and intentions.

If you believe you are going to have a bad life, or a bad performance, or a bad marriage, this is what you will create. You will unconsciously visualize your belief in your mind. You will also unconsciously set up circumstances to sabotage the good life, or a good performance, or a good relationship. I bet you think it was the old stinker you’re having trouble with. Well, you must admit it, you could have done things differently, right? You could have been nicer, more loving, less critical and so forth. Of course, the other person could also have been much better.

We are created in the image of our Creator, so we also create.
According to the teachings of Abraham, “with everything we do, think, or say, we are creating”.  Just think of a nice Thanksgiving dinner all the brothers and sisters get together laughing and talking with parents and grandparents. That sounds like so much fun.  But, what if one person makes a cutting comment? What if you respond poorly and make a cutting comment of your own? You have created this scenario. The other person also created this scenario. If you both had chosen better words, or better responses, then the creation would’ve been different, right?

You can imagine the life you want.
Did you ever read any of the books by Dr. Wayne Dyer? He wrote a book about speaking “I AM words”. For instance, do you ever say things like this?
• I am so ugly! Replace it with “I am good looking when I fix up.”
• I am so stupid! Replace that lie with “I am smart, I spend time on my studies and get better every day.”
• I have no love in my heart. Change this to: “I am able to love. Love grows in my heart every day and I see reasons to love others, animals, and I even notice the beautiful trees and plants with love.”

Think about an attractive person you have seen in the past. Let’s say it’s a woman. Do you think she looks in the mirror, says “Oh no!” and gives up? No, she probably searches for makeup and creams that make her face beautiful. She probably spends time fixing her hair and finds just the right thing to create the inner image of the enhancement of her natural beauty. She has a desire to feel confident in her appearance instead of ashamed of ugliness. So, she focuses on the beauty she wants rather than the “plain Jane” she sees in the mirror.

Feel The Feelings 
Dr. Dyer tells how the imagination is the greatest gift we have been given. In his book called Wishes Fulfilled, He said “You can imagine the life you want. Everything that now exists was once imagined.” Then, imagine the feelings of having already received the imagined thing you want. So, we don’t receive the changes we want by saying things like “I’m so ugly”.

We are to see what it is we are wanting, then, feel the feelings as if it has already been granted. In other words, we celebrate and feel amazing gratitude before we ever see our desire in actuality.

 

Divine Solution: Close your eyes, concentrate. Feel as if you are speaking to your guardian angel, or guide, or God. Say something like this:
“I am learning more everyday about imagining what I want, then feeling vividly that I have it already. I do not allow myself to visualize the thing unwanted, but rather only what is desired”.

Learn About Consciousness

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Learn About Consciousness

The religious group of people that demonstrates the “gift of the Holy Spirit” is known as “Pentecostal”. This gift is mentioned in Acts which is in the New Testament.  This “gift” is the very same gift that is currently being called “channeling”.

I grew up in this church group and  have heard many “prophetic utterances” in the “full gospel” and Pentecostal churches. The people with the “gift”, say they feel as if they receive a few words or a thought, then they speak out what came to their consciousness. These utterances are encouraging, loving, profound guidance that is unmistakable. When this takes place, it is usually after the entire congregation has sung a worship song from the heart.

I have never seen this happen in the “ordinary” churches that use hymnals and simply sing without emotion.  When the congregation is allowed to send up “vibes” of love and thanksgiving,  this phenomenon occurs.  Millions of people will attest to this.

A person can plainly see that the collective worship sends “good vibes”. You can feel this. Tears of happiness come to your eyes because a holy presence descends upon all the people. A spontaneous hush comes upon everyone. Even babies do not utter a sound.

Then, the words of comfort and instruction come from someone who has this spontaneous urge to speak.  This is a divine message to those present because they opened their hearts collectively.

On YouTube, you can find individuals that have this ability to “channel”.  That is the new terminology many people use today to describe the same gift.
Because of the profound words, knowledge, and guidance, life can change.

  Here are a few of the instructions which have been received:

1. You get what you think about. Whether you dwell on the bad, or sad, you will get more of what you dwell upon. Why? Because your thoughts have energy and vibration. Science DOES substantiate this!

2. You can recover from abuse when you stop yourself from rehearsing the bad things that happened.

3. You can become aware of what you are thinking and change the negative thoughts to more positive thoughts
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4. Thoughts have power to create.  Learning the science of Quantum Physics will give you this knowledge.

5. There really is a Creator, but not a man sitting on a throne with a long white beard.

6. We are a tiny portion, or fractal of the Creator. This is why we are called “children of God”   The Creator is like the “ocean”. Each human being is like a cup-full of that  ocean.

• See the “Double Slit” experiment on Google, conducted in 1909.
• The ancient writings have told about all of us being “children” of a Creator. We have similar powers of creation.
• Our power of creation is within the use of our imagination.
• Every religion recorded tells that a creator said, “Let there be light”. As “children creators”, we say things like “Let there be more love in my life”, and there will be more love.
• After we believe it is true, we visualize, and stay focused on receiving.

7. You can know for sure about how life works. But, the first step is allowance and acceptance.
• Allow the science to prove it
• Allow life experiences to prove it to you.
• Endeavor to give up senseless resistance to the truth and accept truth when it comes.

8. Your emotions are your creative genius. This is “energy in motion”.
. Scientifically, this is proven.
• Your emotions are creating what you don’t want, also what you do want.
• Emotions cause experiences to come to you that are congruent with the emotion you produce. It is energy. Physics is the study of energy. It is proven scientifically that emotions send out “vibrations and draw to you what is congruent”. If you produce joyful emotions, more joy comes. If you produce angry emotions, more angry situations come.

9. We are the cause. It is the state of our consciousness that is responsible for the circumstances of our lives. Become aware of your reactions to life circumstances.

Divine Devotion:   From your sincere heart, decide to investigate these things by just asking if it is true. Then do some reading and research. Give up some time on the tv and you will start discovering more truth.

YOU HAVE INBORN CREATIVE POWER


Well, I didn’t know that we ourselves have power to create! Create what? Create how? I thought only God could create anything and we are just small, weak beings. I heard countless sermons that if I obeyed all the rules, I could ask for help from the supernatural. However, this belief leaves a person with the idea that to have any help from God, you must become perfect, or near perfect. This would mean not speaking bad words, no smoking, no drinking, no lies, no angry thoughts, no laziness and so forth. If you fall short, you’re out of luck! The automatic guilt you feel will interfere with and short circuit the answer to your prayer request!

When you “believe” you are unworthy, then how can you have to “faith” you need to receive answers to your prayers? Just read the book by Kenneth E. Hagin called, “Authority of the Believer”. His revelations received from the “spirit realm” are fascinating.

Of course, you can ask forgiveness but there’s always the guilt thing, I didn’t feel free to stay hooked up and in tune because of the sin consciousness. In church we were told constantly that we were a bunch of sinners and are guilty. It was just an internal belief I had acquired because of the guilt I felt resulting from abuse. My belief was that I was not worthy of good things! I was told about sin over and over. So, there I was, just reacting to circumstances. My life circumstances were terrible!

No one really knew about the Law of Attraction. I read The Secret, by Rhonda Burne. The book gave a great basic explanation I needed to know. I discovered that I kept mentally focused on what I didn’t want! Then, I would have even more of what I didn’t want!

But now I know to focus on what I do want! I found out about the use of my own focus of attention when I heard about Esther Hicks and how she “received” messages from Abraham. I don’t know if you have heard of Abraham, but if you will dare to hear this, you will be able to see for yourself that exceptional wisdom is coming from this source. You will know that you know when you hear truth.

Don’t Focus on the Absence of What You Want
For instance, how many times have you wished circumstances were different? Do you visualize the life you want with a feeling of its absence? Do you dream of having better things, situations, people in your life with tears? This means you are focusing on the ABSENCE of what you want. Therefore, you are actually “creating” more of what you don’t want!

So, change that feeling of absence of what is wanted, to a feeling of having these things on the way! Check out how that feels! There are no tears now, no feeling of the absence! You now are happy and joyful because you know it is on the way. This is what is called, “faith”.

But first, you must understand the truth about your beliefs concerning whether God is mad at you. He is revealing to people all over the world that He is not mad! He has already forgiven us because we are “little” children down here trying to learn to love better. The messages reported by many people with near death experiences, state that our very own guilt interferes with our receiving prayers answered!

When we find out the truth, then we can stick with it.  Did you ever hear that the truth will set you free? Free from what? Free from thinking and believing wrong beliefs! It is our own incorrect beliefs that interfere with our receiving help from the “unseen realm”.

MY PRAYER: Close your eyes, concentrate. Pretend as if you are speaking to your guardian angel, or guide, or God. Say this:
“If I have any beliefs which are interfering with my better life, I ask that I may become aware of this so that I can change them. When something comes to my mind, I will write it here and contemplate it.”
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